Category Archives: Rants

Fleeting Frustrations #10 – But You’re From L.A., Amber

Posted on November 18, 2019 by Stitch

It’s pointless for me to spend money and emotional energy to travel to see someone who said, with their whole chest, that a Black man deserved to be accosted by the police because he was disrespectful. Continue reading →

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Short and Salty #1: They’re All About The Whiteness

Posted on June 29, 2019 by Stitch

Normally, I keep my saltiest thoughts to twitter or my Dreamwidth account. It’s better for all of us. However, this salty thought is part of a currently shelved follow-up to my What Fandom Racism Looks Like article on Beige Blank … Continue reading →

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Fleeting Frustrations 6.5: “We Can’t Have Anything, Can We?”

Posted on May 29, 2019 by Stitch

Star Wars Episode IX: The Rise of Skywalker is the focus for the cover story for Vanity Fair’s Summer 2019 issue and readers were “blessed” with dual covers – one with Adam Driver’s Kylo Ren and the other with Daisy … Continue reading →

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Fleeting Frustrations #6: “At Least Kylo Never Lied To Rey”

Posted on May 4, 2019 by Stitch

So fucking what Finn initially held back from telling Rey that he was a Stormtrooper that defected in The Force Awakens –

At least he’s not an entitled, mind-rapey douche that keeps gaslighting her, who tortured her, and who keeps trying to kill her.

You know… like Kylo is. Continue reading →

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Fleeting Frustrations #5: K-Pop Groups’ Hood Phases

Posted on April 3, 2019 by Stitch

In general, I’m used to Blackness being seen as a cool and fun style to adopt by people who aren’t always clear about how they feel about Black people. Continue reading →

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Fleeting Frustrations #4: What’s the Deal With Reverse Harem Romances?

Posted on January 18, 2019 by Stitch

There are only about three thousand books that come up when I search for “reverse harem” so let me start out by letting y’all know that I do get that it’s a small part of the overall genre and makes … Continue reading →

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Fleeting Frustrations #3: When White Queer Icons Like Ezra Miller Fail Us

Posted on November 16, 2018 by Stitch

It’s more important that we bask in Ezra Miller’s star as it begins to crest than we have the tough conversations about what it means that a queer icon getting visibility is partially responsible for a film that attempts to flat out humanize Darren Wilson, a murderer who killed Mike Brown because he was Black and read as a threat to Wilson because of it. Continue reading →

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Fleeting Frustrations # 2: Fan Studies, Like Fandom, Isn’t the Best About Race

Posted on October 18, 2018 by Stitch

I am grateful to fan studies scholars for giving me a name for what I’d been doing before I ever knew that fan studies was a thing. I love fan studies as an academic discipline and I wish that it … Continue reading →

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Fleeting Frustrations #1: Heteronormativity in Urban Fantasy Revisited

Posted on August 20, 2018 by Stitch

Content warnings for cis- and hetero- centric worldbuilding. Back in June 2016, I wrote a whole Urban Fantasy 101 piece on the heteronormativity present in much of the genre (and I am including contemporary paranormal romance in this wide umbrella). … Continue reading →

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Where Are Y’all Getting Your Characterization From? Finn Isn’t A Coward, Or Selfish, And He Doesn’t Need A Damn Redemption Arc.

Posted on June 2, 2018 by Stitch

I’m not Resistance. I’m not a hero. I’m a Stormtrooper. Like all of them, I was taken from my family I’ll never know. And raised to do one thing.  In my first battle, I made a choice. I wasn’t going to kill for them. So I ran, right … Continue reading →

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A Quick Quibble: Supposedly “Straightwashing” Okoye in Black Panther

Posted on May 26, 2018 by Stitch

In a (now deleted) tweet thread from April of this year, writer and artist Kate Leth went in on superhero media for the lack of queer representation in the Marvel Cinematic Universe (MCU). The thread was fine and absolutely valid … Continue reading →

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When White Villains Get Woobiefied: Kylo Ren Is Just A Monster In A Mask

Posted on April 23, 2018 by Stitch

Notes: The following post will mention childhood abuse (and who gets to have that kind of trauma respected/made up for them to give them weight and validate their actions) and spoilers from the film and novelization versions of The Last Jedi … Continue reading →

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Queer Coded Villains Aren’t That Awesome

Posted on February 23, 2018 by Stitch

I woke up  on MLK Day swearing that I’d dreamt up a tumblr post where someone quoted Martin Luther King Jr. in order to defend Hux, Kylo Ren, and the First Order. When I went through my archives, not only … Continue reading →

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When will it finally be an acceptable time to talk about gun violence?

Posted on February 14, 2018 by Stitch

Today, at Marjory Stoneman Douglas high school in Parkland, Florida (the school I did my student teaching in back in the beginning of 2015), a young man with access to an AR-15 and a ton of ammo shot multiple people. … Continue reading →

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Protected: [Rant] Vent Video about MCU Fandom Racism

Posted on February 3, 2018 by Stitch

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